Dream 2: Not actually rape, but still rape

Things that stick out:
pain in anus
confusion
weird hybrid boyfriend dude, not ex boyfriend, but still kind of ex boyfriend

What I remember:
Waking up with pain in both my vagina and my anus, but anal pain more prominent. Asking boyfriend if he fucked me in the ass while I was passed out, he says yes, I say "never do that again." He has clearly fucked me all sorts of ways while I am asleep/passed out. I did not wake up during the sex. Remember thinking it wasn't rape in the dream, but when I woke up I thought "that was totally rape." Then debated with myself all day about what rape is.

Thoughts: I have no fucking clue.